Before 三部曲说透了,其实就是个对话组成的电影。透过对话表述、有着爱情为包装的对话,其实侃侃而谈许多我们生活会想要逃避的对话。这电影谈论人生、谈论选择、谈论爱情的现实面,谈论出个在许多人心目中不可动摇的地位。由对话中,womany 今天精选出九句表达对于爱情的希望、分手后的觉悟、心灵相通的可能性等爱情中各种不同阶段观点的情绪。


Before Sunrise 爱在黎明破晓时(推荐阅读:一天即是永恒《爱在黎明破晓时》

“ I like to feel his eyes on me when I look away.”— Celine

“我喜欢我转头时他盯着我看的深情眼神。”--- 席琳

“ There's these breeds of monkeys,right?And all they do is have sex. All the time,you know? And they turn out to be the least violent,the most peaceful,the most happy,you know?So maybe fooling around isn't so bad.” —Jesse

“妳知道有种猴子,他们整天都在交配。整天耶,妳知道吗?结果发现它们是最不暴力、最温和快乐的猴子。所以,也许各取所需的关系也没有什么不对。”

“ People have these romantic projections they put on everything that's not based on any kind of reality.”  — Jesse 

“人们都会将他们没有任何现实根据的浪漫的想法投射在所有的事物上。”--- 杰西

 


Before Sunset 爱在日落巴黎时(命定的偶然《爱在日落巴黎时》

“ You know what’s the worst thing about somebody breaking up with you? Is when you remember how little you thought about the people you broke up with, and you realize that that is how little they’re thinking about you.” — Jesse

“妳知道人家跟你分手最痛苦的是什么吗?是当你已经不再想那个与你分手的人时,妳意识到他们其实也没有那么常在想妳了。”--- 杰西

“I guess when you're young,you just believe there'll be many people with whom you'll connect with. Later in life,you realize it only happens a few times.”— Celine

“我想,当你年轻的时候,妳会觉得很多人可以跟你心灵相通。但是随着你长大,你发现这种机会很可贵。”--- 席琳

“You can never replace anyone because everyone is made up of such beautiful specific details.”— Celine

“正是那些美丽的小细节让每个人都无法被取代。”--- 席琳


Before Midnight 爱在午夜希腊时(爱的永恒之道《爱在午夜希腊时》

“ If you want true love, then this is it. This is real life. It's not perfect but it's real. And if you can't see it then you're blind.”— Jesse

“如果妳想要真爱,这就是了。这就是生活。它也许不完美但是它是真实的。如果妳没办法看见妳就太盲目了。”--- 杰西

Celine:“ Will you be able to put up with me for another 56 years?

Jesse:“I am looking forward to it.

席琳:“你愿意再忍受我五十六年吗?”
杰西:“我非常期待。”

“ What I miss the most about him is the way he used to lie down next to me at night.  Sometimes his arm will stretch along my chest and that I couldn't move mine.  I even held my breath.  But I felt safe,complete. And I miss the way he was whistling,walking down the street. And every time I do something I think of what he would say. “It's cold today,wear a scarf.” But lately,I've been forgetting little things. He's sort of fading and I'm starting to forget about him. And it's like, like losing him again. So sometimes I make myself remember every detail of his face:the exact color of his eyes,his lips,his teeth,the texture of his skin,his hair. But it was all gone by the time he went. And sometimes — not always,but sometimes, I can actually see him.  It's as if the cloud moves away and there he is,I could almost touch him. But then the real world rushes in,and he vanishes again. For a while,I did this every morning,when the sun was not too bright outside, for the sun somehow makes him vanish. As he appears and he disappears,like sunrise or sunset or anything so effeminate. It's just like our life, um? We appear,and we disappear. And we are so important to some,but we are just passing through.”— Natalia

“我最想念他以前躺在我身边的模样。有时候,他的手会放到我的胸上,我没有办法移动我的手。我甚至会停止呼吸。但是我感到安全,我是完整的。我想念他边走边吹口哨的样子。然后我每次作什么事都会想像他会说什么。‘今天很冷,记得戴围巾’。但是最近我会忘记这些小细节。他渐渐消失了,我开始忘记他了。这...这好像重新失去他。所以我有时候会强迫自己描绘他的脸的每一个小细节:他眼睛的确切颜色、他的双唇、他的牙齿、他皮肤的触感、他的头发。但是这一切都随着他的过世一并被带走了。有时候,但并非总是如此,但有时我真的可以看到他。那好像云移走时他就在那里了,我几乎可以碰到他了。可是现实世界涌入,而他再次消失。我有一阵子每天早晨都会这样作,当外面的太阳没有很烈,因为太阳某种原因会让他消失。当他出现、他的消失如同日出或日落或其他这么柔弱的东西。这就像生命,对吧?我们出现、我们消失。我们也许对某些人来说很重要,但是最终,我们只是个过客。”--- 娜塔莉

简单的几个字串连起来却形成足以感动横跨十几年的百万观众,Before 系列电影将文字的力量表透的淋漓尽致。不论你生活是否快乐、对爱情是否还抱有希望,相信 Before 系列中一定至少会有可以感动你的文字。如果还没看过的人,赶快去看吧!如果已经看过的,找个时间安静下来,重新再回味一次吧。

延伸阅读:
〉〉其实妳一直在找的,不是最爱妳的人
〉〉相处的“每一刻”都是“最后一刻”
〉〉为什么,不跟我在一起?

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